Working With You on You
Feeling Adrift After a Relationship has Ended?
Relationships are an integral thread which connects us to ourselves, each other, and the world. They are key to the quality of our lives. Whether it's with neighbours, family members, colleagues, friends, lovers and others, we are the common denominator in all of our interactions.
A relationship ending can be a deeply painful experience that can leave us feeling lost, confused and disconnected from ourselves. It can also be an invitation to become curious about the unconscious patterns that attracted and impacted the connection.
A relationship ending can be a deeply painful experience that can leave us feeling lost, confused and disconnected from ourselves. It can also be an invitation to become curious about the unconscious patterns that attracted and impacted the connection.
Or is Your Current Relationship with Self or Another Stressed?Navigating stressors in an existing relationship can be confusing and overwhelming, leaving us wondering what happened and how to return to the way things were. Traditional therapeutic approaches may not be a fit for everyone involved. And that's okay. One person working on their part of the equation with me really can create transformation.
I believe that we struggle in relationships because we haven't taken the time to get to know ourselves. This means that we also have less space to truly know someone else. We might respond to each other unconsciously, by default, especially when conflicts arise which scratch our hidden emotional traumas. Return to Harmony and Peace With Yourself and OthersOur early relationships often include original wounding which creates a template for patterns that we unconsciously repeat, again and again, in our future relating. Many of our current relationships ask us to notice, address and positively shift the unhelpful patterns. Accepting the challenge in safe, supported ways creates new templates to unlock harmony, peace and greater health in all of our relationships.
My approach helps people make sense of the emotional trauma that occurs in relationships. It reveals the unique root causes of our struggles and co-creates transformation. We work together on this individually, on a 1 to 1 basis, prompted by any type of existing relationship. |
The Power of One In Relationships There is a common assumption when beginning this kind of work that both partners need to be involved in the process. This is a misconception that often exacerbates even more tension in the relationship. The fact is that it only takes one person to transform a relationship. One aspect of karma is that although it binds two people together, the initial deep transformation work is often only tackled by one partner. ~ Richard Rudd |
I can support you in the following ways:
"Ross is touching so many lives. Every occasion I have to mention him to others, I do. People need him. This man hears you. He sees you. He knows where to carry you. He's an amazing, amazing man. Everybody that we've referred to Ross, their lives are all changing for the better. What a gift to the world." Denise Bertin-Maclean |
"Ross is understanding, trustworthy, caring and truly has a passion for helping people. I truly believe that if it was not for Ross I would not be sober and thriving today." C.S. |
"Ross has a very empathic and compassionate energy about him. He is very intuitive and in tune with people. I was able to feel seen, heard and understood in our sessions. I would recommend seeing Ross for any extra support on your healing and self-discovery journey!" A.R. |