Are You Ready To Return To Your True Nature?
A Nudge From Your Intuition
Can you relate to some or all of the following?
There is a dynamic that may have developed when you were young. On a deep level you knew that there was more love available than you were receiving. You quietly learned to ask yourself these two questions:
Who, or how, do I need to be to get more love?
Which parts of myself do I need to hide in order to receive more love?
The parts you chose to hide would have included your unique gifts. What started as an unconscious agreement with your parents or caregivers created a template applicable to all aspects and phases of your life.
It is likely that a nudge from your intuition has brought you here in search of answers and support. You may be feeling stuck in many aspects of your life and are longing for a different way of being and living. The force or pressure beneath the surface creating this feeling is your inner child, your soul, your intuition, your spirit, your most inward, protected and original voice. It has finally gathered enough strength to ask you to respond and answer the call.
Upon recognizing this call, you may feel any combination of empowerment, fear, joy, and confusion. It may be hard to know how or where to begin living with this new truth and honouring its voice.
There is a dynamic that may have developed when you were young. On a deep level you knew that there was more love available than you were receiving. You quietly learned to ask yourself these two questions:
Who, or how, do I need to be to get more love?
Which parts of myself do I need to hide in order to receive more love?
The parts you chose to hide would have included your unique gifts. What started as an unconscious agreement with your parents or caregivers created a template applicable to all aspects and phases of your life.
It is likely that a nudge from your intuition has brought you here in search of answers and support. You may be feeling stuck in many aspects of your life and are longing for a different way of being and living. The force or pressure beneath the surface creating this feeling is your inner child, your soul, your intuition, your spirit, your most inward, protected and original voice. It has finally gathered enough strength to ask you to respond and answer the call.
Upon recognizing this call, you may feel any combination of empowerment, fear, joy, and confusion. It may be hard to know how or where to begin living with this new truth and honouring its voice.
Answering The Call
A wise part of you has called you here to read these words. It could be described as, “The you who knows.”
This inner self could be considered a primal wildness wanting to awaken and be re-animated into your life. This wildness is your natural and original energy. It wants to be expressed and integrated into your entire being. It has been waiting for the time to re-emerge. The first step is to answer its call.
The Call can show up as a whisper or, if ignored for long enough, can be intense turbulence or suffering in your everyday life. Regardless of the intensity, a part of you observes these experiences and has a deep knowing that something needs to change. You may wonder why a certain pattern, person, situation, or thing keeps repeating in your life. The repetition is The Call; an invitation to bring a deep awareness and change to your life.
Saying Yes to this journey takes strength, courage, and commitment. Perhaps on some level you know there will be no going back to the life that you had. This is about rebirth and powerful transformation. As you look into the mirror and take responsibility for your life you will step over a threshold and begin to transform.
This inner self could be considered a primal wildness wanting to awaken and be re-animated into your life. This wildness is your natural and original energy. It wants to be expressed and integrated into your entire being. It has been waiting for the time to re-emerge. The first step is to answer its call.
The Call can show up as a whisper or, if ignored for long enough, can be intense turbulence or suffering in your everyday life. Regardless of the intensity, a part of you observes these experiences and has a deep knowing that something needs to change. You may wonder why a certain pattern, person, situation, or thing keeps repeating in your life. The repetition is The Call; an invitation to bring a deep awareness and change to your life.
Saying Yes to this journey takes strength, courage, and commitment. Perhaps on some level you know there will be no going back to the life that you had. This is about rebirth and powerful transformation. As you look into the mirror and take responsibility for your life you will step over a threshold and begin to transform.
To see ourself objectively is a challenge. Having someone reflect our
blindspots to us with love opens the door to change and growth.
blindspots to us with love opens the door to change and growth.
You Can't Do This Alone
Our original wounding often happens in our early relationships. This creates a template or pattern that we then unconsciously repeat in our future relationships.
Saying Yes to the journey of exploring such depth invites healing and the conscious creation of new, more supportive patterns. The key is to share the process with someone with whom you feel safe. That allows for 100% openness, honesty and comfort to receive the reflections of your blindspots. For example:
Do you clean the house before the housekeeper comes over? If so, in the context of counselling, you might be inclined to only show your best self while deflecting the truths that linger under the surface.
I will walk with you as we create a space that allows you to share openly and reveal such truths. Together we will do the courageous work of slowly discovering and transmuting these unconscious shadows into your light and everyday life. This allows the voice of your inner self to re-emerge.
To this work I bring the ability to quickly create a gentle, loving, safe space. This lets you show up with all your wounds and stories. Together we can transform them into wisdom and wholeness.
Saying Yes to the journey of exploring such depth invites healing and the conscious creation of new, more supportive patterns. The key is to share the process with someone with whom you feel safe. That allows for 100% openness, honesty and comfort to receive the reflections of your blindspots. For example:
Do you clean the house before the housekeeper comes over? If so, in the context of counselling, you might be inclined to only show your best self while deflecting the truths that linger under the surface.
I will walk with you as we create a space that allows you to share openly and reveal such truths. Together we will do the courageous work of slowly discovering and transmuting these unconscious shadows into your light and everyday life. This allows the voice of your inner self to re-emerge.
To this work I bring the ability to quickly create a gentle, loving, safe space. This lets you show up with all your wounds and stories. Together we can transform them into wisdom and wholeness.
Exploring Emotional Trauma
You may relate to these symptoms of feeling stuck:
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"The essence of trauma is disconnection from ourselves." - Gabor Maté |
I have spent thousands of hours working with people individually and in groups. This has brought clarity that our emotional traumas and their resulting unconscious patterns create all the symptoms of our suffering, both in how we relate to ourselves and others. What happened to us in the past impacts our present experiences. Sometimes we must look back to move forward.
The real work, the hard work, brings awareness to the unconscious repeating patterns playing out through our suffering. To use a gardening metaphor, we must remove the entire weed and its roots rather than just the parts above ground. To re-awaken your original inner voice, your inner wildness, we must include the source of the emotional trauma held in your body.
The real work, the hard work, brings awareness to the unconscious repeating patterns playing out through our suffering. To use a gardening metaphor, we must remove the entire weed and its roots rather than just the parts above ground. To re-awaken your original inner voice, your inner wildness, we must include the source of the emotional trauma held in your body.
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A Little About Ross
A blend of elder, life coach, and counsellor without letters behind my name. If letters were there, they would be SOL (School of Life.)
My passion is to skillfully help people see themselves and their unconscious patterns clearly so that they can learn to embody self-acceptance and maximal self-care. I bring a diverse toolkit with compassionate wisdom, unconditional love, and fierce honesty to our sessions. "Fierce Honesty" may sound harsh but it is rooted in love and care. The goal is for clients to feel deeply seen, accepted and supported while doing this work together. My personal growth journey began in 1999 and is ongoing. It included completing life coach training in 2006. I work with individuals, couples and groups by request. More about Ross. |
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