Ross Tayler ~ Intuitive Counsellor
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Embodying The You Who Knows

An 8 Week In Person Workshop
In Person Workshop
8 Consecutive
Dates and location T.B.A.

Imagine if you...

  • were deeply rooted in yourself while relating with others.
  • felt a deep connection to your inner voice, truth, and wildness.
  • experienced improved self confidence.
  • enhanced your feelings of self-worth.
  • could sense deep connection and belonging with others.
  • had clarity and decisiveness about honouring your needs.

The Drama Of Relating

Many of your emotional wounds likely originated in your earliest relationships. The patterning created repeats in your subsequent relationships, which continues until a part of you gives a little tap on the shoulder and says, "Hey! This dynamic isn't working; something needs to change." This awareness is likely what brought you here to this offering. In order to heal your patterning, you first need to take some time to individuate. To get to know yourself, perhaps for the first time. When you focus outwardly on the other person you are relating with to get your needs met, you are slowly losing yourself, which is a belief that what you need can only come from outside of yourself. You then blame the other person who isn't meeting your needs for the problems in the relationship, which leads to what can feel like a never-ending struggle.
The need for acceptance & connection, comes at the cost of not being yourself." ~ Gabor Matė

The Shift From Scared to Sacred

Unfortunately, being co-dependent in relationships may feel normal until awareness shifts this belief. Most relating is rooted in fear of disconnection or the loss of love. If you believe love and connection can only come from outside yourself, then you are setting yourself up for upset. You may be scared to take a step for yourself as it might create the very loss you fear. It may seem counterintuitive to individuate within a relationship to shift the dynamic, yet this is likely what needs to happen. What do I need to do to get more love from you? Becomes; "How do I source love from within"? What parts of myself do I need to hide? Becomes; "What parts of myself do I allow to shine"? This re-connection with yourself is a journey towards the sacred, a re-connection with spirit, and soul, an opportunity to create a practice that nurtures the you who knows. To be aligned with your soul and connected with your inner voice is a precious gift. With this shift, your relationships transform from disconnection and struggle to conscious connection and inner peace. The sacred is rooted in self-worth, confidence, self-care, self-love, and clear purpose.
Healing is gaining the freedom to create new meanings for our present experiences and let go of the meaning of our early experiences when we didn't have a choice." ~ Gabor Matė

It's Time To Re-Imagine How To Heal Relationally

The quote above suggests we can rewrite our present experiences to free us from our past experiences. This rewrite can happen partially on your own with contemplation and pause. However, the best way to gain awareness is to heal through the reflection of others. Bottom line; we heal in relationship with others. By connecting with others in a group setting, you get to see yourself in the reflection of others through witnessing their experience. You also get to dive deeper and take responsibility for what is happening within you. This experience allows for the creation of new neural pathways and new stories of safety.

​Together we will co-create a safe space to deepen your connection with yourself and others. Groups can feel intimidating and be a place to experience deep connection and learning, which can quickly outweigh your fears and reservations. ​This offering will be in person and facilitated by Ross Tayler, who brings over 24 years of lived experiences to this healing work and thousands of hours facilitating groups.​​

**In case the question is arising for you. This workshop is about taking time for you and connecting to you. If you and your partner want to attend together that would be totally fine and supportive. I do feel the seed of a future offering where couples can work on their relationship together.
The Power of One in Relationships
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There is a common assumption when beginning this kind of work that both partners need to be involved in the process. This is a misconception that often exacerbates even more tension in the relationship. The fact is that it only takes one person to transform a relationship. One aspect of karma is that although it binds two people together, the initial deep transformation work is often only tackled by one partner. If the teaching is correctly followed and embodied, then the other partner experiences a simultaneous opening. ~ Richard Rudd - The Gene Keys

An Eight Week Hero's Journey

Separation
​Weeks 1 -2

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Separation comes after answering the call. You cross a threshold and there is no turning back to the life you had. You know you will not be the same after this journey.

Initiation
Weeks 3-6

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Initiation is all about being in a space of uncertainty and trusting each step on the journey will take you home. Home to your village but more importantly home to you.

Return
​Weeks 7-8

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The return is about coming back to the village and sharing all you have learned about yourself with the villagers. This is when you begin to experience embodiment.

During the 8 weeks, I will offer a consistent framework to guide us each week. I will also create space to intuitively offer topics based on the needs of the group as we learn and grow together. 

Proposed Outline:
  • Brief grounding meditation after everyone arrives
  • Review our agreements / commitments to each other
  • Individual Check Ins
  • Explore a Weekly Topic which will include group activities
  • If the opportunity arises, participants may be supported individually to go deeper into a topic, witnessed by the group and supported by Ross
  • Individual Check Out
  • Close the Circle

Caterpillar to Butterfly

The journey from caterpillar to butterfly is the perfect metaphor for the journey we will co-create and mirrors the Hero's Journey. Inside of the chrysalis, the caterpillar actually dissolves into organic ooze. Cells, which are aptly called “Imaginal Cells,” begin to emerge. This is what starts the process of creating a new form and structure. This shows us that we can literally become what we imagine. All the items listed below can be the source of our suffering and the source of our emergence as a metaphorical butterfly.
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The story you were told was your path
Self- esteem / self-worth
People pleasing
Your beliefs
Your inner critic
The drama triangle​
Your shadows
Your core wound/s
Lack of boundaries
​​and more....
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Testimonial  Ross sets up a clear, healthy, supportive environment for us to explore and learn. I felt inspired and energized throughout the process. I am deeply grateful." ~ D.D.

Details and Registration

​When:  T.B.A. 

Where:  T.B.A
Who Can Attend: This group is open to everyone!

Your Investment: ​See Angel Pricing Below.
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There are only 8 spots available for this offering.
When the heart opens completely, you will stumble upon the most powerful force in the universe - your loving eternal presence. A mind that is free of self-concern becomes a heart that is open to all possibilities." ~ Matt Kahn

Angel Pricing ~ Embodying The You Who Knows

Below you will find 3 options / ways to pay. Choose the option that most closely fits your needs.
​If you have any questions please use the contact page to reach out.
The following options are based on the honour system, no questions asked, and no proof of income required.

Option 1
​$480

This option is for those that have a yearly income of $50K or more. By paying my full rate you are paying it forward so others can access my services. $120 will be donated to those clients who choose either option 2 or 3. 

Option 2
​$320

This option is for those that have a yearly income of less than $50,000 or are in a life situation that makes Option 1 inaccessible. This option is partially funded by those paying the full rate in option 1. 
Use Coupon Code:  SS320

Option 3
$160

 This option is for those who have a yearly income of less than $30,000 or are in a life situation that makes the other options inaccessible. This option is partially funded by those paying the full rate in option 1.
​Use Coupon Code:  SS160
**For coupon codes, during registration enter the code at the end of Step 2. See images below. Click Redeem Coupon. Then enter the code from above and click Apply and then complete the registration by clicking pay now or pay later button.
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